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Achieving Inner Peace

Achieving Inner Peace

By John-Roger

Peace is cessation of againstness. So if you’re in acceptance, you’re in peace, profound peace. You’re not against anything. It is a quality inside where, for example, you accept that what you do is what you do and that if you had known better, you would have done better. If we could do better, we would do better. But we’re doing the best we know how with the circumstances we’re involved in and what we have to work with, including ourselves and the other person.

Can we always do better in achieving inner peace? Yes, but you need to watch because, “I could have done better than they did” and “I can do better next time” can be warring actions. That second one is very subtle. You may say, “I can do better next time,” but that situation may never appear again, so you’re now in a process of againstness, against doing “bad” with regard to that situation the next time, yet it may never show up again. That’s wasted energy.

If you’re against someone, you must hold a picture in your mind and a feeling in your emotions and maybe a body posture of fighting or holding so that they’re always what you’ve judged them to be at some point. Even to hold them in that position in your consciousness is a statement of war. So inside of us, we have to come to a cessation of against-ness. This applies to our parents, our siblings, our other relatives, our growing-up companions; everyone and everything in our lives.

For example, the other night I went to a preview with some friends and an actress friend who starred in the film. As we sat there before it started, I asked her what kind of a movie it was. She started to describe it, and I started to have this sinking feeling of, “I don’t want to watch this.” It was really getting the upper hand, to the point where I thought, “I want to get out, just walk into the lobby and wait for the others to come out.” The more I sat there, the more I realized I was not at peace with the movie or at peace with my role there, participating with the actress. So I just reached over and touched her hand. I said, “So this is sort of a sci-fi horror flick. It must be exactly what I need.” I claimed it, took authority over it, and entered into the peace.

It was a good movie, but I don’t think it would have been a good movie in my other state of consciousness, no matter how good it was, because it was not going to measure up to my projected imagery and expectation of what it should be like. When we went to dinner afterward and talked about it, we all had enthusiastic statements. And even though we had some critical statements, they weren’t negative. When the actress told us that the film was going to be re-cut and edited, one of us said, “The guy’s finger was cut off the right hand in one scene, and then when they showed another scene, the finger was cut off the left hand.” To say that was to make a critical statement, but it wasn’t a negative, criticizing one.

Critical statements aren’t necessarily war statements; they’re along the lines of, “Here’s how to make this better.” Criticizing would be, “Look how terribly they did the fingers.” Making a critical statement is to say, “To keep continuity in the movie, you need to have the hands match up from scene to scene.”

I used to work in Salt Lake City as a police officer. A sergeant once said to me, “A peace officer’s peace can’t be disturbed.” I liked that. I   PoliceOfficerthought, “Boy, I’m a peace officer. And if they get in my way, I’ll shoot them.” He said, “Our peace cannot be disturbed.” I thought, “Yeah. If they disturb our peace, we’ll throw them in jail.” I was making war statements.

Then the sergeant looked over at me and said, “What do you understand by ‘a peace officer’s peace can’t be disturbed?’”

I said, “I’d rather hear your answer.”

He said, “We must always be in the position that no matter what anybody does, our peace inside is never disturbed. That way, we become fair in fulfilling the law with people.”

It woke me up inside. I had been off base. Enthusiastically off base, but still off base. Sincerely off base, but off base. Lovingly off base, but off base. This sergeant brought me back, and then I was enthusiastic, sincerely, lovingly on base.

From that day on, I never gave a ticket for anything because nobody could disturb me enough. I stopped people and talked to them. If they went through a red light, I’d say to them, “That light was red.”

Some said, “It was orange when I went through.”

“In that case,” I’d tell them, “watch real carefully because you can get hit on an orange light, too.”

And they’d say, “Oh, yeah. You’re right. Thanks.” They learned, and they left. I wasn’t into penalizing. They drove away feeling more peaceful, having been talked to carefully.

Staying present is the key. I think that’s what I’ve told people most often over the years: Be loving and stay present. Right here, now, this is the place to accomplish and get everything. If we go back to the past, we’re usually going to punish somebody or be punished by somebody. And if we’re going toward the future, we’re in fear of somebody or we’re going to intimidate somebody. All we do by doing those two things is get ourselves in a state of war. Then we can get sick, and we pay the price, either now or sometime later. And it’s great to know that the law of God is just and impartial. But sometimes, we say, “No, I want a break. I think God should give me a break.” Enter into the grace of now, and then God gives you the break. So all the breaks are in our hands and our control. Knowing that can bring us further towards achieving inner peace.


BIO: John-Roger is the contributor of the Karma and Destiny chapter in The Light. He is also the founder of the Movement of Inner Spiritual Awareness (MSIA) and an author of more than 50 books on spirituality.


by Keidi

August 9th, 2013


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